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A man may seeking bad girl for good time even realize he will ultimately penalize a woman for giving him the very thing he pressures her.

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The Groucho Marxist doctrine taps into this thinking: Any woman who would have me must be pretty desperate. Male hypervigilance about a woman's sexual choices arises from a basic genetic self-interest.

It serves to monitor paternity, since a woman who sleeps around is not a reliable vehicle for any single man's genes, according to evolutionary logic. Why, then, do women persist in "sleeping around" or "putting out"?

Like most fundamental human behaviors, there are trade-offs that would have made female promiscuity a viable strategy in many cases throughout human history. A harsh and unpromising environment say, few available resources and fewer seeking bad girl for good time men might warrant tenuous liaisons with several men rather than a single connection to an unreliable man.

Anthropologist Sarah Blaffer Hrdy has argued that such environments—uncertain provisions for a woman and her progeny—encouraged women to have a mixed strategy: Such behavior may in part account for the fact that ovulation is largely concealed in human females, which allows women to misrepresent or "finesse" paternity so as to accrue resources from more than one male.

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In the contemporary world, promiscuity takes the form not just of surreptitious couplings with multiple partners; rather, it consists of sexual liaisons with no commitments desired or discussed. However, that's not necessarily a comfortable decision if reproducing and settling down aren't an immediate need," says Justin Garcia of the Laboratory of Evolutionary Anthropology and Health at Binghamton University in New York.

Even in a hookup, Garcia has found, people are still food looking for a relationship—in fact, about half the time. And men and women do so equally.

Garcia observes that courting—say, dinner and a movie—may be dying in the high-tech instant-gratification world we live in. Instead, "hookups have become a new technique employed to garner a more traditional good partner. In the modern cosmopolitan setting, the period between menarche and reproduction has grown to upward of 20 years, and the average American woman now has her seeking bad girl for good time child at age Such a span of reproductive freedom gives rise to novel mating strategies, including hookups, sex girls dubai calls, and one-night stands.

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But our emotional reactions to these options have not evolved. Being judgmental about promiscuity is an emotional seeking bad girl for good time evolution has handed men.

Sidestepping it might be easier when men know what they're up. Men certainly don't have to derive morals from biology, but they are well served by consciously knowing their biases, so they can decide more rationally. Women can also learn to divine men's real philosophies about women, although it's not always easy to discern a bedfellow's biases. All the more reason to know your own intentions when jumping into the sack.

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